Why girls are the way they are

There would be not even a single man on this planet earth who has not asked this question to himself. Does any man have an answer for this,"Why girls are the way they are". I am sure 99% of the guys would definitely say no and to the remaining 1% if they really do exists,then man you're genius,more genius then the likes of Leonardo Da vinci and Einstein because they also could not figure out this mystery.


Firstly,let's find out what exactly the mystery is? Why things related to girls are so complex. I have highlighted some of the complexities below and tried to explain them with incidents and scenarios. It will just give an idea of how complex a female mind is.

1.Even if a girl want to say yes she would say no

I guess it is the most common situation faced by every guy at some point or the other. And the irony of the situation is,most guys don't even know that the girl ever wanted to say "YES". I would like to share a incident on this. A friend of mine used to like a girl a lot. One day after gathering all his courage,he proposed the girl. The girl replied with a "NO" and said she is not interested in all this. After this incident,my friend gave up hope and moved on. After 2 years when we all met at a common friend's party,while playing Truth & Dare,my friend asked her the reason of saying no to him. The girl said,"no reason,had you proposed again I would have said yes. How do you expect girls to say yes so early and easily". My friend got a shock of his life and her reply muddled me as well.

2.What if I said no,why did not you ask again

This is the situation most guys face every now and then. Personally speaking i face this situation all the time. Whenever i ask my female friends out for a party or a movie some of them would reply with a no and after the outing or movie When i would tell them how wonderful it was they would hit me back with a taunt. They would say "i would have come had you asked me properly". Till today I wonder how and what that properly could be.

3.If you feel jealous then why and if you don't feel jealous then why not.

Now that's really a catch 22 situation for guys. When a guy feels jealous when his girl is talking to other guys,the girl says"why are you feeling jealous,iI only love you or they would say dont you trust me. And when a guy is cool when his girl talks or hangout with other guys and does not feel jealous,the girl says"You dont care for me,You dont love me". I wonder what should a boy do?

Well these are just a few points that i have drawn attention to. And i know rather than giving an answer all i have done is left you all with these riddles. But honestly speaking I,myself,dont have perfect answer for any of these riddles about women.But why not put in a collective effort. So I would request everyone who read this hub to comment,share their similar experiences and attempt to answers these riddles about women in their own way. And especially I would request all the female readers to please share their insight on this. You all have every right to correct me if I am wrong in anyway. And i would also like to say that I am in no way undermining or underating females or their behaviour. Infact it is these complexities that makes females all the more desirable. I am just trying to help guys like me to understand you all a little better.